You don’t find the BDSM lifestyle in Newcastle by shouting into the void of Tinder. I mean, you can. But you’ll get a lot of confused looks and one guy who thinks “being dominant” means finishing your fries without asking. Newcastle—NSW, not the rainy English one—is a steel city with a soft underbelly. And the…
G’day. I’m Bennett Blevins – born in Liverpool, raised in Liverpool, and yeah, still bloody here. Not because I lack imagination. Because this place gets under your skin. I’m a sexology researcher turned writer, now scribbling about eco-activist dating and sustainable food for the AgriDating project over on agrifood5.net. Weird combo? Maybe. But so is…
Look, let’s just cut the crap. Finding someone who wants the same weird thing you do in Melbourne? It’s easier than ever. But also way more confusing. I’ve been watching this city’s underbelly since the 90s, back when you had to know a guy who knew a guy just to find a dungeon. Now? There’s…
Let’s just rip the band-aid off, shall we? If you’re in Cheltenham and looking for something beyond the standard dinner-and-a-movie routine — something with a bit more, let’s say, edge — you’ve probably noticed the struggle is real. It’s 2026, but the dating apps still feel broken. You either hide your kinks until the awkward…
Hey. I’m Jack Kemp. Born in Savannah, Georgia – yeah, the humid one – but I’ve lived in Lilydale, Victoria for almost two decades now. I’m a sexologist, or I was. Now I write. Mostly about the messy overlap between who we sleep with, what we eat, and whether our compost bin is attracting the…
